It's a lot for Rey to take in, though the broad strokes of the conflict itself had been recorded, and Padmè's contributions as Queen and Senator were well enough known. The only thing that had been left out was that she'd been married to Anakin Skywalker. It puts things in a strange new light even now that she's had time to process it.

"I don't want him harmed. I don't think he wanted to hurt me, either, but when you're each the strongest Force-user on opposite sides of a war, eventually the battle comes down to the two of you."

She's not sure, now, if Kylo would be able to kill her. She's fairly certain she couldn't kill him -- not now, anyway. She'd promised herself she wouldn't hesitate if it came down to her life or his, and it had only taken a few conversations to make her certain she couldn't follow through. Talking to each other was only going to make everything worse if they went home to find nothing changed.